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  • Love Ends Up With Roommate

    I misread a lot of signals and I ended up falling in love with her, and I thought she felt the same. So, I confronted her with this, only to find out that she never thought I felt that way, and that actually, she was attracted to my best friend/roommate. I was in shock at first, but the next morning, I woke up to find her and my roommate in bed together.

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  • Musical boyfriend sings Ex Love Songs

    It didn't used to bother me that he performs songs about a couple of his ex's that are not only very emotional, but which include sexual details.  But lately, I'm starting to feel jealous and upset when I hear the lyrics over and over again as he practices and performs. So, how do I get my mind on the music and our relationship - and off of Sally, Jessie, or whoever else he's singing about...?

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  • I Couldn't Commit, Now I Miss Her...

    I split up with my girlfriend of six years back in May. I was very fond of her and we had so much in common but over the years I always had doubts about whether she was the one. Basically I could not commit to her so over those years we never moved in together. I know I need to give her some space, but is there any hope?

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  • He Says I'm Dependant, Fickle love...

    I've been with my partner for over four years, half of this time we have been engaged. However, since I changed my mind briefly about getting married at the end of this year, he has been different. Now he says he isn't even sure if he loves me as much as he used to. He says I am dependent, and that I cannot do things on my own, such as going to the store or driving myself somewhere. What do I do?

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  • Man In The Ministry, Wont Leave His Wife For Me.

    I have met a man over the internet that I have fallen in love with and he is in love with me. The problem is, he's married and a minister. He's been a minister for about 5 years now and his wife of 12 years does not not support him. I am so in love with this man. I want to be with him now and I have become very depressed about this relationship, but I can't say goodbye. How can I cope with this situation.

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  • 6 Year Relationship Goes Bad, Was It My Insecurities?

    I don't know what to do anymore. I was with my partner for 6 years, and he recently ended it with me for someone he met at work. I'm a very insecure person. I wanted to be with him every moment of every day, so I know that I've pushed the love of my life into the arms of someone else. I really don't know what to do?

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  • Am I Wrong For Being Jealous

    Me and my girlfriend were dating for about a year and a half but certain situations and differences have ended our beautiful relationship. I am a jealous person and get jealous very easily. No matter what I do I find myself thinking about her and wondering what she's up to. My heart still longs for her and I miss her a lot, what do I do?

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  • The Casual "I love You"

    When does saying "I love you" get to be so casual. It seems we say it more out of habit then because we truly want to tell each other that we do. Oddly if it isn't said we end up thinking something is wrong.

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  • Baby On The Way, It Turns Out My Boyfriend Is Married

    I have been seeing this guy for a little over a year now, we fell in love and everything fell right into place. Next think you know we are living in an apartment together an I got pregnant. A few days ago he confesses that he is married with two kids. I asked why he never told me this before and he responded with a "I don't know". Now he's being very distant and I'm left feeling stupid. What's going on.

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  • Midlife Crisis - Mixed Signals from my Ex

    My husband and I separated last Sept after he had an affair with a work colleague. He has all the signs of depression due to midlife crisis. Recently he told me he was still in love with me and that although he still calls her once in a while he doesn't love her and would like to get back together. The weird thing is I spoke to him last night and he said he doesn't remember saying any of this. I feel so hurt and confused and don't now what to do for the best.

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