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2 years ago, I was engaged to my ex of 4
years and living in his house. I broke up the engagement using multiple
excuses like our constant arguments over little things. I initially blamed
myself when I later gained some insight through therapy that part of the
reason I'd been sabotaging my relationships was due to my fear of
commitment. I understand this sounds crazy and unrealistic but I have
honestly tried to forget him unsuccessfully. I don't know what else to do
to get him out of my heart and mind.
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I know it has only been two months, but in
the first two weeks with her I felt this connection that just blew me away,
something I never felt with either of the long term relationships I was in.
Two days ago I was telling her goodbye and I told her I love her. It just
came out it wasn't planned. Nothing, she has never told anyone she loved
them she says.
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I just moved to another state and work most
of the time so I don't have any friends down here. I have a Myspace page so
I started browsing through some of pages people had in the area when I came
across one that caught my eye. -- I know it's probably bad that she
has a boyfriend, but like I said this was all completely by accident.
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I've been seeing this guy for about 5
months. He's very respectful, honest, and easy to love. The
honesty I love and respect about him, but it doesn't make me feel too good.
The thing is, he's afraid of being hurt again so he's hesitant to commit,
and not only that, he loves another woman in another state whom he hardly
ever sees.
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I broke up with my girlfriend about 6 months
ago after just a 3 month relationship. To this day I am still struggling.
After reading up on the concept of love addiction it appears I have many of
the symptoms. E.g. "Love is the only thing that matters in live", " I'm
terrified of being alone again".
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I misread a lot of signals and I ended up
falling in love with her, and I thought she felt the same. So, I confronted
her with this, only to find out that she never thought I felt that way, and
that actually, she was attracted to my best friend/roommate. I was in shock
at first, but the next morning, I woke up to find her and my roommate in bed
together.
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It didn't used to bother me that he performs
songs about a couple of his ex's that are not only very emotional, but which
include sexual details. But lately, I'm starting to feel jealous and upset
when I hear the lyrics over and over again as he practices and performs. So,
how do I get my mind on the music and our relationship - and off of Sally,
Jessie, or whoever else he's singing about...?
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I split up with my girlfriend of six years
back in May. I was very fond of her and we had so much in common but over
the years I always had doubts about whether she was the one. Basically I
could not commit to her so over those years we never moved in together. I
know I need to give her some space, but is there any hope?
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I've been with my partner for over four
years, half of this time we have been engaged.However, since I changed my
mind briefly about getting married at the end of this year, he has been
different. Now he says he isn't even sure if he loves me as much as he used
to. He says I am dependent, and that I cannot do things on my own, such as
going to the store or driving myself somewhere. What do I do?
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I have met a man over the internet that I have fallen in love with and he is in love with me. The problem is, he's married and a minister. He's been a minister for about 5 years now and his wife of 12 years does not not support him.
I am so in love with this man. I want to be with him now and I have become
very depressed about this relationship, but I can't say goodbye. How can I
cope with this situation.
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I don't know what to do anymore. I was with my partner for 6 years, and he recently ended it with me for someone he met at work. I'm a very insecure person. I wanted to be with him every moment of every day, so I know that I've pushed the love of my life into the arms of someone else. I really don't know what to do?
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Me and my girlfriend were dating for about a year and a half but certain situations and differences have ended our beautiful relationship. I am a jealous person and get jealous very easily.
No matter what I do I find myself thinking about her and wondering what
she's up to. My heart still longs for her and I miss her a lot, what do I
do?
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When does saying "I love you" get to be so casual. It seems we say it more out of habit then because we truly want to tell each other that we do. Oddly if it isn't said we end up thinking something is wrong.
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have been seeing this guy for a little over a year now, we fell in love and everything fell right into place. Next think you know we are living in an apartment together an I got pregnant. A few days ago he confesses that he is married with two kids. I asked why he never told me this before and he responded with a "I don't know". Now he's being very distant and I'm left feeling stupid.
What's going on.
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My husband and I separated last Sept after
he had an affair with a work colleague. He has all the signs of depression
due to midlife crisis. Recently he told me he was still in love with me and
that although he still calls her once in a while he doesn't love her and
would like to get back together. The weird thing is I spoke to him last
night and he said he doesn't remember saying any of this. I feel so hurt and
confused and don't now what to do for the best.
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